PART 1
走近愛情：性別的差異
1.茫茫人海中，為什麽你一直找不到另一半？｜男女單身原因研究
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2.隻要女生在場，男生就會產生奇妙變化｜性別助長效應
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3.父母離異的人適合結婚嗎？｜破碎的原生家庭沒那麽可怕
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4.情侶間的愛情觀不一致怎麽辦？｜關於愛情觀的調查研究
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5.滿大街都是“顏控”，普通人如何獲得愛情？｜“美即是好”的心理學效應
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6.戀愛，結婚，生子，變老……男人都比女人更幸福？｜“男性規範”是怎麽一回事
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7.男女之間的九種不同，和成千上萬種相同｜有關性別的心理學研究
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PART 2
告別單身：表白的技巧
1.友情以上，戀人未滿｜六大友情技能和愛情三角理論
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2.越難被追到的人，就越會被珍惜嗎？｜“欲擒故縱”的心理真相
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3.科學模擬相親，最有錢、最漂亮的反而落單了？｜愛情匹配假設
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4.手把手教你表白｜關於表白時機的科學
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5.約會該穿紅色還是黑色？｜心理學家揭秘六大 “來電” 絕招
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6.女生最想收到的禮物竟然是……｜情人節送禮，你需要明白的“人設”
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7.七個心理學小技巧，讓對方情不自禁愛上你｜培養好感的科學指南
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PART 3
愛情保鮮：相處的藝術
1.自由戀愛比相親結婚更容易後悔？｜看看自我差異理論怎麽說